it either brings a family closer together or breaks them apart. (At least that's what a friend told me.) I can see how it can be a time to re-evaluate and review all the wrongs that have been done to each other. I've been doing that alot lately in general but right now it's hitting really close to heart. Time isn't slowing down for me so i'm shovelling through the shit as fast as I can. After death I'm not going to get too many answers so I have to make appointments to run down my lists of questions NOW.